For couples who choose to be intentional

Your relationship.
Your rules.
Written together.

Patto guides you through structured conversations on 12 life topics — privately, on your own devices — and builds a shared agreement you both confirm.

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Your Pact
❤️ Fidelity · 88% aligned
✓ Live
💰 Money · 74% aligned
✓ Live
⚡ Conflict · Needs discussion
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Daily Flame
🔥 13-day streak
Both answered today
How it works

Built for two people,
on two devices.

Each partner answers independently. The AI finds alignment, identifies divergence, and turns your honest answers into shared clauses — confirmed by both of you.

01
Answer privately on your device
You each answer structured questions across 12 topics — fidelity, money, children, conflict, and more. Your partner sees nothing until both are done.
02
AI analyses your alignment
Once both partners complete a topic, the AI identifies what you agree on, where you diverge, and writes clause suggestions grounded in your actual answers.
03
Both partners confirm the pact
Every clause requires independent confirmation from both partners. Nothing enters the pact without explicit agreement from each of you.
04
The pact lives and evolves
Daily questions, monthly AI insights, and challenges keep the relationship — and the pact — current. Clauses can be proposed for revision at any time.
Alex & Jordan · Pact v1
❤️ Fidelity

We are fully exclusive — physically and emotionally. Any significant connection we would be uncomfortable sharing, we share first.

💰 Money

Any purchase over £1,500 is discussed together before being made. Neither of us commits unilaterally.

💑 Intimacy

We say it out loud when we appreciate each other — not assumed, not implied. We make it explicit.

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Alex & Jordan
✓ Both confirmed · June 22
Everything in Patto

A full system for
relationship clarity

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12 structured topics
Fidelity, money, children, home, future, conflict, separation, family, intimacy, career, friends, health. Plus custom topics you create yourself.
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Privacy by design
Answers are encrypted per-user. Your partner sees nothing until both of you have submitted. Enforced at the database level, not just the UI.
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Daily questions
A shared question every morning. Both answer privately, reveal together. Monthly AI feedback if you answer 20+ days. The more you answer, the sharper the insights.
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AI Coach
Individual (private), Couple (shared), or Conflict mode. The coach knows your pact and your history. Not a therapist — a structured thinking partner.
🏆
Weekly challenges
AI-generated missions based on your specific pact and alignment scores. Not generic relationship advice — calibrated to where you actually are.
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Moments
A private diary for the couple. Text and photos. Visible only to the two of you. The most important archive Patto builds over time.
The 12 topics

Every conversation
that matters

Most couples have never explicitly discussed what they believe about these things. Patto makes the conversation structured, private, and productive.

❤️
Fidelity
Exclusivity, trust, and what happens if a line is crossed.
💰
Money
How you split costs, save, and make big financial decisions.
👶
Children
Whether, when, how many, and how you'd raise them.
🏠
Home
Space, guests, routines, and how you live together.
🌱
Future
Where you want to live, marriage, and the life you're building.
⚡
Conflict
How you fight, how you recover, and what you need when it gets hard.
🕊️
Separation
What a respectful exit looks like if it ever comes to that.
👨‍👩‍👧
Family & In-laws
Boundaries, visits, and how much family is too much.
💑
Intimacy
Love languages, closeness, solitude, and how you stay connected.
💼
Career
Ambition, relocation, sacrifice, and financial equality.
👫
Friends
Independence, shared friends, and ex-partners as friends.
🏃
Health
Physical health, mental health, and how you support each other.
🇪🇺 GDPR & UK GDPR compliant
Privacy

Your answers belong
to you alone.

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End-to-end encryption
All answers are encrypted with AES-256-GCM per user. Neither partner nor Patto staff can read your responses before the privacy gate opens.
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No ads. No data selling. Ever.
Patto is subscription-funded. Your relationship data is never sold, shared with advertisers, or used to train AI models outside your own session.
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Your rights, always available
Right to access, portability, rectification, and erasure. Request your full data export or account deletion from the app at any time. Fulfilled within 30 days.
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Minimal cookies by default
Only strictly necessary cookies unless you explicitly consent. No tracking pixels, no fingerprinting, no third-party analytics without consent.
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AI session isolation
Individual Coach sessions are encrypted separately. They are never merged into the shared couple profile without your explicit consent.
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AES-256-GCM encryption
Every answer encrypted per-user. The database stores ciphertext. Keys are derived per-user and never stored together with data.
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Zero data selling
Patto's business model is subscriptions only. Your data has no commercial value to us beyond helping you.
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GDPR Article 20 — Portability
Request your full data export from the app. Delivered within 30 days, in a machine-readable format.
Pricing

Simple. No surprises.

One partner pays. The other is always free.

Monthly
$12
per month
  • All 12 topics
  • Daily questions & flame
  • AI Coach (all modes)
  • Weekly challenges
  • Unlimited Moments
  • Partner 2 always free
Save 17%
Annual
$119
per year $144
$9.92/month
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  • Early access to new features

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What couples say

Real relationships,
real clarity.

★★★★★
"We'd been together 4 years and thought we knew each other completely. The Money topic surfaced a disagreement we didn't even know we had. Worth it for that alone."
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Emma & Tom
Together 5 years · London
★★★★★
"The AI Coach in conflict mode completely changed how we fight. Instead of going in hot, we each write privately first. By the time we talk, we've both already thought it through."
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Priya & Arjun
Together 3 years · Singapore
★★★★★
"We did Patto the week after we moved in together. Having the pact as a written document we both actually agreed on — not assumed — made everything easier."
S
Sara & Luca
Together 2 years · Milan
Get started

Your relationship deserves
a written agreement.

Start the first topic today. Your partner joins free. The first conversation takes about 12 minutes.

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